From Loneliness to Oneliness:

Toward a world where connection, relationships, and care lie at the heart of our lives, communities, and societies.

*Oneliness, a historical term that existed before ‘loneliness’ emerged in the 1800

A quarter of the global population feels deeply lonely, with young people feeling their weight more than ever. But loneliness isn’t just a personal experience—it’s a crisis woven into the fabric of our modern, hyper-individualized societies: superficial apps, artificial intimacy, declining trust, fragmented cities, the rise of populism, and economic systems that prioritize independence over interdependence.

Yet within loneliness lies a soft power— a chance to reconnect and reimagine how we care for ourselves, each other, and the world.

I write, I hold space, and I weave personal and collective experiences into something we can see, feel, and carry forward. Through The Oneliness Project, I gather what we’ve learned—and what others have found—and shape it into new ways of understanding how we care for ourselves, each other, and the world. This is a journey where connection and community become a way of life.

Upcoming Masterclass

How to Feel Happier—Even If You’re Losing Faith in Humankind

Wednesday, April 8

17:00 CET | 12:00 EST
60 min. on Zoom

​This isn’t a lecture. It’s a space to reflect, unlearn, and reimagine how you show up in everyday life. If you’ve ever felt the tension between craving deeper connection and feeling overwhelmed by people, this is for you.

The Oneliness Letters

  • The Weight of Conformity: Loneliness in Collectivist Culture

  • The Weaponization of Loneliness: How MAGA and Big Tech Feed the Divide

  • The AI That Feels Just Human Enough: How We Shift in Relating to Ourselves and Each Other

  • Fast Company Interview: The One Question That Prompts Rewarding Connections

  • The Practice of Connecting with the Present Moment: What Monastic Life at Plum Village Taught Me About Loneliness and Community

  • When We Mourn Together: How Grief, Dementia, and the Lives of Our Elders Can Bring Us Closer

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Work with me

I work with organizations and communities to cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections. Whether through consulting, workshops, or coaching, my work helps create authentic, relationship-centered environments that foster belonging, collaboration, and care.

I’ve had the privilege of working with clients such as L’Oréal Professional, Phoenix Group, Omek, the Othering & Belonging Institute at UC Berkley, and the House of Beautiful Business.

  • “Monika came into our team like a ray of sunshine, supporting our marketing efforts as we build community and promote our events. Her approach combines humanity, clarity, and execution. She has elevated our current systems and shared best practices, insights, and writing that support growth and action. Monika operates with grace and thoughtfulness, allowing each team member to contribute and shine. It has been an honor to work alongside her and learn from her experience and methodology.”

    Kes Camara
    Creative Director, Omek

  • “Monika is an exceptional emcee, facilitator, and event curator. We were lucky enough to engage her as the emcee for our organization's first Europe-based event, and not only did she brilliantly hold the space and intuitively manage the energy in the room on the actual day, but she also became a close collaborator and advisor in helping us develop the gathering. Her insights helped make our event even better than we anticipated. I can't recommend Monika enough as a facilitator or emcee- we are already looking forward to working with her again!”

    Sara Grossmann, Program Director, Othering & Belonging Institute at UC Berkley

  • “Monika is an energetic phenomenon of a new, purpose-driven generation. Technologically savvy, empathic and curious how to achieve a better, more humane future. Able to inspire your top executives, energize your audience and challenge your Weltanschauung.”

    Christian Knörle, Head of Company Building, Forward31 by Porsche

Get in touch with me!

With a request, a message, or a wish—I’d be happy to hear from you.