From Loneliness to Oneliness:

Toward a world where connection, relationships, and care lie at the heart of our lives, communities, and societies.

*Oneliness, a historical term that existed before ‘loneliness’ emerged in the 1800

A quarter of the global population feels deeply lonely, with young people feeling their weight more than ever. But loneliness isn’t just a personal experience—it’s a crisis woven into the fabric of our modern, hyper-individualized societies: superficial apps, artificial intimacy, declining trust, fragmented cities, the rise of populism, and economic systems that prioritize independence over interdependence.

Yet within loneliness lies a soft power— a chance to reconnect and reimagine how we care for ourselves, each other, and the world.

As a writer, community builder, and experience designer for meaningful connection, I help individuals and organizations navigate the journey from loneliness to oneliness—a state of wholeness and interdependence. Through The Oneliness Project, I offer a transformative path toward a shared experience of care and healing in community.

A community transforming loneliness into connection and care

The Oneliness Project is a community united by the shared experience of loneliness, a longing to connect, and a deep desire to cultivate meaningful relationships. Rooted in the belief that loneliness is not merely an individual struggle but a collective experience, this project invites individuals to explore their inner world, develop the capacity for care and connection, and embrace the transformative power of meaningful relationships—with themselves, others, and the world.

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Work with me

I work with organizations and communities to cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections. Whether through consulting, workshops, or coaching, my work helps create authentic, relationship-centered environments that foster belonging, collaboration, and care.

I’ve had the privilege of working with clients such as L’Oréal Professional, Phoenix Group, Omek, the Othering & Belonging Institute at UC Berkley, and the House of Beautiful Business.

  • “Monika came into our team like a ray of sunshine, supporting our marketing efforts as we build community and promote our events. Her approach combines humanity, clarity, and execution. She has elevated our current systems and shared best practices, insights, and writing that support growth and action. Monika operates with grace and thoughtfulness, allowing each team member to contribute and shine. It has been an honor to work alongside her and learn from her experience and methodology.”

    Kes Camara
    Creative Director, Omek

  • “Monika is an exceptional emcee, facilitator, and event curator. We were lucky enough to engage her as the emcee for our organization's first Europe-based event, and not only did she brilliantly hold the space and intuitively manage the energy in the room on the actual day, but she also became a close collaborator and advisor in helping us develop the gathering. Her insights helped make our event even better than we anticipated. I can't recommend Monika enough as a facilitator or emcee- we are already looking forward to working with her again!”

    Sara Grossmann, Program Director, Othering & Belonging Institute at UC Berkley

  • “Monika is an energetic phenomenon of a new, purpose-driven generation. Technologically savvy, empathic and curious how to achieve a better, more humane future. Able to inspire your top executives, energize your audience and challenge your Weltanschauung.”

    Christian Knörle, Head of Company Building, Forward31 by Porsche

Get in touch with me!

With a request, a message, or a wish—I’d be happy to hear from you.