In a time ruled by swipes, hyper-individualism, and growing distrust towards one another, I explore loneliness as a personal, shared, and societal issue—and its soft power to reconnect with ourselves, each other, and the world.

Before the word "loneliness," emerged around 1800, there was only "oneliness” — a concept of wholeness, where one was all, and all were one.

Shaped by neoliberal values, artificial intimacy, and the commodification of connection, we’ve grown further apart from our sense of self and each other, leading to a crisis of mental and physical health, increasing isolation, and political polarization. A global study shows that nearly a quarter of the world feels lonely regularly, with young people increasingly affected.

I started Sharing Our Loneliness because I believe in the soft power of loneliness to reconnect us—to ourselves, to one another, and to the world around us. Through my work as a writer, facilitator, and community builder, I guide individuals and organizations from loneliness to oneliness, from independence to interdependence, and from being alone to being all one.

Sharing Our Loneliness

is a living movement that reclaims loneliness without stigma or shame, countering isolation with connection and independence with interdependence. Together, let’s cultivate a world where care, compassion, and community are the foundations of a fulfilled life—for ourselves, for each other, and for all of life around us.

Offerings

Transforming loneliness into a path toward deeper connection—for individuals, teams, and communities.

Writing & Speaking

I create content to reframe loneliness as a bridge to deeper connection. I write a Substack newsletter (800+ subscribers) and have been featured in publications like Fast Company. I’m available for speaking engagements and have spoken at international business and tech conferences including House of Beautiful Business, UNFINISHED Festival, The Conference in Malmö, and TEDx Potsdam, as well as for corporate clients like L’Oréal Professional and Phoenix Group. Whether it’s a keynote, interactive workshop, or facilitated discussion, I’m passionate about inspiring audiences to rethink connection and community.

Gathering & Teaching

I create gatherings that invite both individuals and organizations to reconnect with themselves, each other, and the world around them. Drawing from extensive experience in experience design, curation, somatic practice, and mindful dialogue, I craft spaces that are both playful, and introspective, and engage body, mind, and heart across cities such as Berlin, Bucharest, and Lisbon as well as online.

For those seeking to deepen their social and emotional skills, I offer a 9-week online program designed to nurture connection skills and cultivate a sense of belonging.

Strategy & Consulting

I partner with impact-driven organizations to bring the values of Sharing Our Loneliness into their communities. With extensive experience in building global platforms, leading virtual and in-person festivals, and hosting corporate events, I specialize in content and communications strategy, experience design, and community management. Previous clients include Porsche, Deloitte, Omek, Reemina, along with projects like a podcast series for the World Economic Forum. My approach supports organizations in centering connection and relationships within their culture, helping them foster environments of trust and genuine engagement.

Sunday, October 1 | 11:30 - 18:00 close to Berlin

Reconnect for 2025: A Day Retreat of Care and Community

We offer a space to reflect on this year and envision a connection-centered 2025. Through meaningful practices, nature immersion, and shared experiences, you’ll uncover what connections you’re truly seeking, both with yourself and others. Our day together blends gentle movement, guided reflection, and joyful time in the community, helping you start the year renewed and focused on what matters.

​We offer a tiered pricing structure to keep this retreat accessible, with rates available for all financial situations.

  • “Monika came into our team like a ray of sunshine, supporting our marketing efforts as we build community and promote our events. Her approach combines humanity, clarity, and execution. She has elevated our current systems and shared best practices, insights, and writing that support growth and action. Monika operates with grace and thoughtfulness, allowing each team member to contribute and shine. It has been an honor to work alongside her and learn from her experience and methodology.”

    Kes Camara
    Creative Director, Omek

  • “Monika is an energetic phenomenon of a new, purpose-driven generation. Technologically savvy, empathic and curious how to achieve a better, more humane future. Able to inspire your top executives, energize your audience and challenge your Weltanschauung.”

    Christian Knörle, Head of Company Building, Forward31 by Porsche

  • “Monika is an exceptional emcee, facilitator, and event curator. We were lucky enough to engage her as the emcee for our organization's first Europe-based event, and not only did she brilliantly hold the space and intuitively manage the energy in the room on the actual day, but she also became a close collaborator and advisor in helping us develop the gathering. Her insights helped make our event even better than we anticipated. I can't recommend Monika enough as a facilitator or emcee- we are already looking forward to working with her again!”

    Sara Grossmann, Program Director, Othering & Belonging Institute at UC Berkley

Curious to connect and explore collaborating?

I’d love to hear from you!