For Individuals

Loneliness isn’t just the absence of people; it’s the longing to feel seen, heard, and undestood.

Together we explore how to foster care, build meaningful relationships, and nurture a sense of interconnectedness — oneliness.

Ways to Connect

  • The Oneliness Letters

    Join more than 1,000 subscribers exploring what loneliness can tell us about how we connect — with ourselves, each other, and the world.

    These letters offer personal stories, cultural insights, and societal reflections on loneliness as a personal, societal, and political experience. Most posts are part of a paid subscription, with occasional free letters.

  • Community Gatherings

    From intimate gatherings in Berlin, Amsterdam, Lisbon, Malmö, Bucharest, Tangier, Hoi An, Paris, and beyond — as well as virtual spaces online — these events are designed to foster reflection, meaningful conversations, embodied connection, and a sense of belonging.

    Donation-based or ticketed — stay updated via the calendar, or follow me on Instagram or LinkedIn.

  • 1:1 Mentorship

    For those navigating personal challenges, unlearning old patterns, or seeking to embrace relationships more meaningfully, I offer 1:1 mentorship as a guidedprocess of reflection and growth. This is a space to explore what holds you back, deepen your connection to yourself and others, and move toward more intentional, fulfilling relationships.

    Let’s chat and see where it takes us?

  • I love reading your newsletters — they always feel like a conversation with a friend who truly gets it. Your words have helped me see loneliness not just as an absence, but as a doorway to deeper relationships.”

    — Substack subscriber

  • “Mapping out my circle of friends has helped me to visualize and sense the people I want to prioritize for 2025, and the ones I may need to let go of. Loved the exercises, and will try to revise it each season!”

    — Day Retreat participant

  • “I have an increased body awareness, the difficult emotions don't get stuck that much due to tuning into it again during the practice and relaxing the body with the moment of gratitude. I feel like I don't get so reactive anymore, or I notice faster if I do and get myself out of it faster.”

    — Workshop participant

  • The Oneliness Voices: A global, collective audio storytelling project dedicated to humanizing loneliness.